Let's get the word out of the way. "Slag" has been thrown at women as an insult for as long as anyone can remember, and that's not how we use it. Round here, local slags are women who've taken the word, turned it into a joke and decided it means "I like sex and I'm not sorry". Some of them use it about themselves with a wink and a list of stories you'd love to hear. If you've ever fancied meeting a woman like that, confident, up for it and completely uninterested in pretending otherwise, you're in the right place.
Blokes Can Be Slags Too
Let's be fair about it: blokes have been called slags for as long as anyone, and most of us took it as a compliment. The women here just stopped apologising for having the same appetite.
So on LocalShags a slag is anyone, man or woman, who likes sex, fancies a bit of variety and can't be doing with the shy routine. You're probably one yourself, so you'll fit right in. That's the joke, and once you're in on it, everything gets easier. Nobody's judging anybody. You're two people with the same idea of a good night, meeting up to have one.
What Local Slags Are Really Like
Funny, mostly. The women who joke about being a slag tend to have the best stories, the loudest laugh at the bar and the least patience for men who waste their time. They know what they like in bed and they'll tell you, in detail, which, if you think about it, is the best thing that can happen to you.
They're also adults with lives: jobs, mates, busy weekends. A local slag isn't sitting by the phone. She's making time for you because she fancies it, so make it worth her while and you'll be invited back.
Slag Dating Without The Awkward Bits
Slag dating works like any good shag date, just with fewer pretences. Have a profile that's honest about what you want. Message with something more interesting than "hey". Suggest a drink somewhere easy for both of you. If the chemistry's there, you'll both know within ten minutes, and nobody has to claim they're "not usually like this".
If it's midnight and you've just typed "slags near me" into your phone, the quickest route is the group chat, which shows who's online and in the mood right now. For the build-up, start the chat dirty and let the conversation do the heavy lifting.
A Night With A Local Slag
Picture it. You've been messaging for a couple of days, and it's been the best kind of chat: quick, dirty and funny in equal measure. Thursday afternoon she sends one line: "Drinks at eight. Don't be boring." You're there at ten to.
She walks in like she owns the place, orders before you can offer, and spends the first twenty minutes taking the mickey out of your profile photo. You give it back. She laughs, properly. By the second drink she's telling you, in some detail, what she's been thinking about since Tuesday, and you've stopped pretending to look at the menu. By half nine you're in a taxi with her hand on your thigh.
That's the appeal. No games, no guessing, no "maybe next time". Just a woman who knows exactly what she wants, a man who's happy to give it to her, and a night neither of you will be telling anyone about.
How To Get On With A Woman Who Owns The Word
- Don't use it at her. If she calls herself a local slag, that's her joke. Laugh with her; don't repeat it back as a chat-up line.
- Match her energy. She's direct, so be direct. Say what you fancy, and enjoy hearing what she fancies back.
- Bring something to the table. Good chat, good company, a decent sense of humour. A woman with experience knows the difference.
- Keep it between you. However wild the night was, it's nobody else's business.
Get those right and a local slag might turn out to be your favourite kind of woman.
Local Slags Questions
Isn't "slag" an insult?
When it's thrown at a woman, yes, and that's not how it's used here. On LocalShags it's a tongue-in-cheek word some members use about themselves, men included, for liking sex and not being shy about it.
How do I find local slags on LocalShags?
Browse the women in your area and read their profiles. Members who use the word usually say so, and the group chat is where you'll find the liveliest of them.
Is slag dating different from other dating on the site?
Only in pace. Conversations tend to be more direct and meets happen sooner, because nobody's pretending to want anything else.
Meet A Slag Tonight
Not every woman wants this label, or any label. Some of them are the women round here who'd just call it a good time, and others are the ones who live for a big night out. Whoever you're after, the way in is the same. Join LocalShags, see who's nearby and say hello. Shag a slag, or anyone else who fancies you back, and if she sends you "Drinks at eight. Don't be boring," don't be.